Every so often our love and relationship task force will answer questions and give advice to those in need. For the time being the questions will be taken from Yahoo Answers Singles & Dating forum. Each question is from a unique user.
Unfortunately, this golden advice will more than likely never be seen by those asking the questions...at least not until this blog reaches its rightful place on top of society's advice and opinion blogging echelon. So, we're just talking in the wind for now. Then again, that's pretty much all this blog is doing right now anyway.
On with the show...
Question
Would you sex is a big or the most important part of a relationship?
And how often would you expect to haver sex a day or week? Guys and girls please
And how often would you expect to haver sex a day or week? Guys and girls please
Answer
Absolutely sex would be the biggest and most important part of a relationship for you. Unfortunately, your partner (or, more likely, victim) will probably not agree with that. As far as how often, I guess it depends on how much chloroform you have on hand. I do applaud your open mindedness when it comes to either finding a guy or a girl for your sexual needs. Marketing gurus preach the best strategy is to cast a wide net, especially when your just starting out.
Question
Something wrong with me?
am i ugly or intimidating?maybe guys are too shy to ask?i'm a junior in hs and nobody has asked me to prom, and i'm not exactly sure why. whenever i'm with friends and we meet someone new the guys always seem to fall in love with my friends but tend to hate me. friends say i come off as mean, but i really don't think i am.i can be a little sarcastic and i love getting people to laugh. but nobody seems to like me upon first impression, when they get to know me better and hang out with me for a few days they seem to like me a little more, but it's confusing for me. i'm not bad looking, btw.
am i ugly or intimidating?maybe guys are too shy to ask?i'm a junior in hs and nobody has asked me to prom, and i'm not exactly sure why. whenever i'm with friends and we meet someone new the guys always seem to fall in love with my friends but tend to hate me. friends say i come off as mean, but i really don't think i am.i can be a little sarcastic and i love getting people to laugh. but nobody seems to like me upon first impression, when they get to know me better and hang out with me for a few days they seem to like me a little more, but it's confusing for me. i'm not bad looking, btw.
Answer
You're more than likely both ugly and mean, but the good news is, you're probably not intimidating. Let's face it, throughout history, mean women have always done pretty well in the romance department (at least for a little while anyway) if they've got the looks to go along with it. But, if you are on the ugly side, or even on the plain side, you can't get away with crap in this society. Of course, you also shouldn't discount the idea that your so called friends might be poisoning the well against you here. But, even the most vicious smear campaign couldn't work without a lot of perceived truth to back it up.
Question
Need to get rid of an ex....HELP!!!!?
I've left him countless times because I just can't find happiness with him. He doesn't seem to understand this. He keeps coming back and putting me on a guilt trip, causing me to take him back. Now, he's back again, but this time he's engaged. That doesn't seem to stop him from loving me though. He is willing to leave his fiance to be with me. They're expecting their first child soon. I still care about him; I just don't feel the same way. I've tried to explain this to him, but he just doesn't get it. What's the easiest way to let him down with completely destroying him?
I've left him countless times because I just can't find happiness with him. He doesn't seem to understand this. He keeps coming back and putting me on a guilt trip, causing me to take him back. Now, he's back again, but this time he's engaged. That doesn't seem to stop him from loving me though. He is willing to leave his fiance to be with me. They're expecting their first child soon. I still care about him; I just don't feel the same way. I've tried to explain this to him, but he just doesn't get it. What's the easiest way to let him down with completely destroying him?
Answer
You're the problem here. You know he's engaged, expecting a child and Lord knows what else. Stop talking to the dude. Stop being interested. I couldn't even tell you if my exes are alive or dead from the moment we break up to infinity and beyond. That's the way to live.
Question
Online dating protocol?
Should you only date one person at a time, and then only move on to the next person if you find out that they're not suitable? Or is it ok to go on a few dates with different people? And then what happens if you decide you like more than one of them, and you have to choose (oh - a dream position to be in...)
Should you only date one person at a time, and then only move on to the next person if you find out that they're not suitable? Or is it ok to go on a few dates with different people? And then what happens if you decide you like more than one of them, and you have to choose (oh - a dream position to be in...)
Answer
Only date one at a time otherwise you end up in one of those hilarious change outfits each time you run to the other's table kind of scenarios. While uproarious and largely forgotten by today's uppity television shows (and they have the nerve to call themselves sitcoms? You won't find a situation more comedic than a guy on two dates at the same time but pretending to only be on one). Anyhoo, you would inevitably end up at the table with the wrong outfit on at some point and be found out by both people, so stick to just one person at a time like God intended.
Question
Do you think he is avoiding me or something?
I go to an adult school, its mostly people around my age (20) and this one guy(Hes really shy, doesnt talk to anyone), who i think is really hot!!! we often bump in to each other or walk by & lock eyes. but we've never talked. to be honest i thought he might have a little crush on me,cuz of the way he looks at me. But i noticed, he AVOIDS me! He will NEVER sit near me, & today i had to go downtown, so i went to the bus stop, (its the bus stop that he takes everyday)& i got there first. he was walking up& we locked eyes for a good 5 seconds.&then he just walked by me, i was shocked cuz he always comes to the bus stop, so why did he walk away. after i got on the bus, i noticed he was like hiding in a store then when the bus went by he went back to the bus stop to wait for another one. WTF, im so OFFENDED.Why is he avoiding me, when he doesnt even know me! why did he do that?
I go to an adult school, its mostly people around my age (20) and this one guy(Hes really shy, doesnt talk to anyone), who i think is really hot!!! we often bump in to each other or walk by & lock eyes. but we've never talked. to be honest i thought he might have a little crush on me,cuz of the way he looks at me. But i noticed, he AVOIDS me! He will NEVER sit near me, & today i had to go downtown, so i went to the bus stop, (its the bus stop that he takes everyday)& i got there first. he was walking up& we locked eyes for a good 5 seconds.&then he just walked by me, i was shocked cuz he always comes to the bus stop, so why did he walk away. after i got on the bus, i noticed he was like hiding in a store then when the bus went by he went back to the bus stop to wait for another one. WTF, im so OFFENDED.Why is he avoiding me, when he doesnt even know me! why did he do that?
Answer
Bus people getting together. How lovely. Anyway, he's probably highly intelligent (he is going to adult school, right?) The last thing the poor guy wants is to start something with someone that rides his bus. What happens when it inevitably ends disastrously due to your stalkerness and his assbergerness? Don't make the poor sap have to buy a car and get a license just to get to and from adult education. Stop staring and move on.
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